You, as a man, may either be extremely self confident and
believe that your girlfriend is totally and unequivocally happy about you, or
be realistic and realize that many things can be changed to meet your partner’s
needs and requests. Whenever you ask a married or engaged woman what she would
like to change about her husband/fiancée, the most common answer happens to be:
“When we first met, he showed his interest in me, while today he seems to take
me for granted”. Well, that is something you may change. After all, does it
cost you so much to take your woman out to some restaurant and buy her a
flower? I don’t think so! It may mean nothing to you, but it would mean the world to
her.
In the second place, women don’t like men’s uncontrollable
interest in other ladies when they are walking on the street holding hands. To
make it clearer, women see everything, but opt for a diplomatic silence not to
spoil the night. But men should never mistake such diplomacy for ignorance or,
even worse, lack of observation, because women really notice every single move
you make and decide whether it is good to speak or not. So, unless you are having a walk along the beach and you
have your sunglasses on, try not to stare at other women, because that would
make your partner upset.
In the third place, we have mummy’s boys. Believe me when
I say that there is not one woman in this world who likes to see her man
enslaved by his mother. Of course, we all know that men have a profound connection
with their mothers, while women are particularly affectionate to their fathers,
but that is no excuse for you to call your mum three times a day or even
running to her as soon as she has the smallest problem she may solve herself.
Your woman will not simply take that for weakness, but will also despise you,
because of your childish behaviour.
The fourth thing women hate about men is when they forget
important dates. Nobody here wants to defend women and their obsessions with
dates, be it your first kiss, your first hug, your first dinner together, your
first time at her parents’, but it is important that you do your best to
minimize her complaints. So, you surely have a Smartphone or a mobile phone that
feature a calendar option. Well, why not use it? Save all the dates that are
important to her and text her on that particular day. Be sure she will feel
important and lucky for you will be the most sensitive man she has ever met.
Of course, these tips won’t save you from those catastrophes
sometimes happen, but they may certainly help you improve your relationship and
understand that what sounds so ridiculous to you, may be of vital importance to
a woman.
Source : http://impulsemagazine.net
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